that is once my msn personal message.
The meaning of the message is that.. (hard to explain eh -.- Anyway, i will try my best... to convert my mind 'words' into words O.o) for example, a true friend of yours can suddenly changed. and become a stranger of yours due to the enviroment changes and the circumstances that particular friend had gone through.
The particular friend has changed. To someone that you don't know. You are sick of his attitude towards everything , on the urge of giving up, a sound , somewhere in your mind ask you that, is it worth it to give up on this friend? is it worth it to let go? Or.... we should just keep silent, get hurted , and accept every single thing?
l once was troubled, confused and stunned by this simple question.
But now, l got the answer from the bottom of my heart, that is, when the time comes ,Be strong, and let go. but before giving up a friend. you must TRY to save this friendship 1st(of course). if after you have tried. and all your trying is just all in vain....that means..it's the time to make the decision.
Hey, l know it's killing pain when you let go a friendship. l had once experienced it.The world which is revolving around you seems like falling down, everything seems like falling apart. As the saying that goes ' time is the best doctor', let time heal your wounds .
During times, the memories and the laughter that you have gone through with that particular friend might remind you of that friend, and you might be sad for the whole day. but after a few times of being sad, you will find out that, the somber will be less, the bitter taste will be less, and finally, you are numb to the pains. ( WTF, AM l TYPING THIS??? -.- IT'S 12.42AM now. my mind went haywire -.-)
Lastly, my advice is, people do change, and that is the thing that you can't control. You can't force that person to change to the 'mode' you want. that will only make things worse. You might get into a quarrel.. and many more. when people changes, it's time for we to backoff.
There's no stains on the page of tomorrow, let yesterday be a lesson, live today to the fullest, and always always, look forward to EVERY tomorrow with hope,love and care. Good luck to all my friends, all the best for you XD.
Cheers!
*Note* l am crazy -.- don't choy me. =P
lol. i dont think should let go of the friendship bo..
ReplyDeleteU r english ok liao la..
ReplyDeleteBetter than mine i think... Haha
jus writing nia.. not reallly got hppen de..lol
ReplyDeleteAgree with lian.
ReplyDeleteBtw..
U wrote means it happened. xD
Anyway, this teaches me 1 thingy.
Sometimes, we just have to learn to accept change. As the saying goes, "One thing that remains constant in life is change". Just because a friend has changed so much he seems like a stranger doesn't mean that you should forget about him.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, you should accept the fact that he has changed. The truth hurts but no one will remain the same forever, there is bound to be something inside them that has changed.
Accept the new him and smile because the pain you feel is just because u miss the old him. If we keep holding on to the past, we will never progress.
There will be a day when our paths differ, and we all become seperated, but our paths may cross somewhere and when we meet, we might not know each other anymore, (What I mean about not knowing each other is that we have changed so much to become a complete stranger to the other. ) but I'll be glad, knowing that we have once close friends. We'll make a promise, to meet each other again in the future, where our paths will cross once again.
we were once*
ReplyDeleteaww i ruined the mood with the typo. XD
we are once....... ? lol u mean me and you . nay. matt. friends forever~ ^^
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